I know it’s getting to be old news now but I’ve been mulling over the recent scandal where FIA head cheese Max Mosely was caught taking part in a so-called ‘Nazi Sex Orgy’ by the News Of The World earlier this month.
I watched the You Tube clip created by the paper, a minute and a half long edit of over 5 hours of footage which claimed to show the F1 Supremo taking part in a sex orgy with 5 prostitutes who were dressed up as Nazi guards and concentration camp prisoners, who spoke German and variously dominated and were dominated by Mosely himself. Immediately I was struck by how hyped-up the whole thing was with the so-called German uniforms looking like nothing more than some male suit jackets and some military type uniforms, how the German spoken was a tiny fragment of speech that I could barely make out and that the concentration camp outfits were more like prisoner outfits from a cartoon than anything else. Granted, there could be a lot more to the footage than is in the clip but you think that they would put in clips that most strongly backed up their allegations, so assuming that it implies this is the strongest evidence they have - which is incredibly weak. You can view the video yourself to see what you think.
Regardless, beyond the old-skool, good-Christian outrage at the married father of two taking part in an orgy, the bulk of the criticism seemed to come from the Nazi overtones that the sex session had and these overtones are the one thing which Mosely has strongly refuted. Right from the very beginning he has actually taken a very honourable line of making it clear that this is his private life and the whole thing is nothing more than embarrassing - never apologising or excusing himself. This is all made more interesting by the fact that he is the son of Oswald Mosely, the leader of the British Union of Facists and who had Adolf Hitler as a guest at his wedding and apparently visited General Franco whilst on a boating trip. A playground for amateur psychologists, indeed.
With that said, accepting for a moment that Mosely WAS taking part in an explicitly Nazi-based fantasy, the question is does it really matter since it is just fantasy? A lot of vanilla people seem to have a problem distinguishing between the imagery in sexual (particularly BDSM) fantasies and reality - people who are into choking or breath restriction probably don’t want to literally suffocate someone, women who engage in rape fantasies don’t really want to be raped. It’s all about power play, about domination and submission and the specifics of what is representing that really aren’t all that significant in the end
But it does raise the question of is it morally acceptable for people to use real-life horrors in their fantasies if that’s all they are? Would it be okay for someone to roleplay, say, a Guantanamo prisoner or an Abu Gharib type situation if it was purely roleplay? Or is it, like some have accused Mosely, an insult to those who have truly suffered in these situations that are now being used for personal pleasure? I’ve mentioned before on my blog posts my own personal discomfort with the multitude of computer games based on specific and real-life war situations because it seems a little disrespectful to use a situation in which someone has genuinely suffered for your own entertainment or pleasure - but again, it’s not real, so does it matter as much?
The implication is, of course, that if he is taking part in Nazi fantasies then he must therefore be a Nazi himself. If he is then THIS is what should be attacked, not what his sexual preferences are and despite his past it doesn’t seem like he does have these tendancies. News Of The World and its ilk couldn’t fight their way out of a wet moral paper bag but it does raise some interesting questions about the morality of personal, private fantasies.
As a final note when i went to the News Of The World site i did note with interest that of the top five “most read” news articles at the time, 4 of them were to do with breasts. Nice.
Personally I think if it’s just fantasy then it doesn’t matter. I actually have a great deal of respect for Mosely standing up and saying that this is his private life, denying strongly the Nazi allegations but otherwise saying it’s none of anyone’s business. People seem to conflate the fantasy of taking part in Nazi style fantasies with actually being sympathetic to the Nazis. (Granted, the issue is made more complicated by the fact that Mosely is the son of the British Union Of Facists and Hitler attended his father’s wedding but that doesn’t affect the underlying issue of whether it’s appropriate to use real-life situations and circumstances through which real-life people have suffered in your sexual fantasies.